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Hands Are Not For Hitting

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Category: Books-Children

by Martine Agassi, Ph.D., and Illustrated by Marieka Heinlen



Hands are not for hitting. Hands are for saying hello. . . . And for playing, creating, helping, working, learning, encouraging, taking care of oneself, and so many more good things.

In this gentle, encouraging book, psychologist Martine Agassi helps young children understand that they are capable of positive, loving actions.

Simple words and warm, inviting full-color illustrations reinforce the underlying concepts: that violence is never okay, and kids can learn to manage their anger.

Especially at an age when children are interacting more with others and starting school, they need to know that hitting is unacceptable. Words telland pictures showthe many wonderful things kids can do with their hands instead of hitting.

Made to be read aloud, Hands Are Not for Hitting also includes a special section for adults, with ideas for things to talk about and activities to do together.

Recommended for anyone in a caring relationship with a young child; perfect for day-care, preschool, kindergarten, and early elementary school classrooms.


40 pages, illustrated, softcover, full-color, 9 x 9, kids, ages 4-7



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Customer Reviews (4.5 / 5 · 2 reviews)

John Z. ★★★★★

We read this every night before bed, and it’s already helped my four-year-old stop and think before lashing out. The message about hands being for helping and creating is so clear, and the simple illustrations keep his attention the whole time.

Elizabeth ★★★★☆

My toddler loves pointing at the illustrations of hands clapping and waving, and it's helped curb the hitting when she's frustrated. The simple, repetitive language makes it easy for her to follow along. I just wish the book had a bit more practical advice for parents at the end.